I Went to watched Sex and The City the Movie 2 days ago, totally out of my expectation!! It seems was so well made for everything. Nice dresses, nice wedding gown, laughter & joke!

What really intrigued me was the relationships between the 4 girls, their husband, partner and kids after many years of seeking love and Labels in New York city. One of the those main things key attributes in life? that really inspired me? from the movie is, Honesty and Forgiveness.

Miranda’s husband Steve went to have sex with other woman and he was very bravely and honestly to ask for forgiveness from Miranda.

Miranda couldn't forgive him because she thought that he had betrayed her and she didn't (I don’t understand what you mean by “she didn’t “here). She felt that she have has sacrificed so much (Career and time) for Steve and she shouldn’t have deserved such betrayal. (I believe it is much of a conditional love and comparing how much was being “give” given in a relationship.) Personally, yes maybe you can say that it’s a conditional love but within an integrated ascended master’s consciousness, there’s a commitment too we have to be responsible in a relationship which it’s no longer a matter of conditional/unconditional love. The question here is what is a man’s commitment in a marriage in “earthly sense”? That’s always the integration of Unconditional love with wisdom and personal power in a sense of “discipline” here in a marriage. It’s spiritual test for the husband to resist his temptations and spiritual test for the wife to learn about forgiveness. Just my personal POV to share with hope you don’t mind and it’s your blog so feel free to write anything you like =)

In On other hand, Miranda is keeping a secret from Carrie that she has indirectly causing caused the break up of Clarrie with Mr Big.

Miranda was asking for forgiveness for not being truthful to her best friend.

Carrie asked Miranda : You are asking forgiveness from me, what about you? Steve is asking forgiveness from you too?

Miranda : it is different situation..

Carries : what’s the different difference? Forgiveness is forgiveness!

When carries said that I am totally so agree with her!!! Are we forgiving a person only based base on the situation and people? Or are we choose selecting the situation to forgive? This is so much of mind conditioning base on personality.

I felt that, usually peoples people are unable to forgive 100% and are is still holding on to certain degree of discordant energy and attachment to the situation of either being unfairly treated, being judged, and or toxic shame. Most of the times time it is about the self & face maybe use the word “ego” is better? issue. And of course the mind is still unable to let go of the situation that is being hurt and most probably the subconscious mind keeps on creating the discordant energy to feed the mental and emotional body and worse still the physical body.

So, forgiveness is forgiveness, there is no 1% or 99% to be forgiven, if we can’t forgive it is just our own issue not the person causing harm to us. It is “us” to keep on feeding the discordant energies to our energies energy fields which is causing more harm …