Went to watched Sex and The City the Movie 2 days ago, totally out of my expectation!! It seem so well made for everything. Nice dress, nice wedding gown, laughter & joke!

What really causing my attention is the relationship between the 4 girls, their husband, partner and kids after many years of seeking love and Labels in New York city.
One of the main things that really made me think from the movie is, Honesty and Forgiveness.

Miranda husband Steve went to have sex with other woman and he very bravely and honest to ask for forgiveness from Miranda.

Miranda couldn't forgive him because she thought that he had betrayed her and she didn't. She felt that she have sacrifice so much (Career and time) for Steve and she shouldn’t deserve such betrayal. (I believe it is much a conditional love and comparing how much being “give” within the relationship.)

In other hand, Miranda keeping a secret to Carrie that indirectly causing broke off with Mr Big.

Miranda asking for forgiveness for not being truthful to her best friend.

Carrie asked Miranda : You asking forgiveness from me, what about you? Steve asking forgiveness to you too?

Miranda : it is different situation..

Carries : what’s the different? Forgiveness is forgiveness!

When carries said that I am totally so agree with her!!! Are we forgiving a person base on the situation and people? Or are we choose the situation to forgive? This is so much mind conditioning base on personality.

I felt that, usually peoples unable to 100% forgive is still holding certain degree of discordant energy and attachment to the situation of either being unfairly treated, being judged, and toxic shame. Most of the times it is about the self & face issue. And of course the mind is still unable to let go of the situation that being hurt and most probably the subconscious mind keep on creating the discordant energy to feed the mental and emotional body and worse physical body.

So, forgiveness is forgiveness, there is no 1% or 99% forgiven, if we can’t forgive is just our issue not the person causing harm to us. It is “us” to keep on feeding the discordant energies to our energies fields to cause more harm…