I think most of the time we as a healer, we wish the person receive healing and hope the person can fully recovered, i think it is entirely based on our intention, if the intention is to service, to offer help, that's the way.

but, i think most of the time we are unconscious of the intention behind, sometime have hidden agenda that we are not aware of, we might running numerous of subconscious program created from the past that we want to heal others, it can be :-

- to prove to other peoples reiki or other healing modalities does work!

- to prove to other peoples we can heal you!

- to prove to other peoples we have the abilities that special to others!

- to prove that i love you unconditionally!

- having guilt instead of compassion to others!

These are all self-identity programming that need approval from others.

I believe a clear intention and the purpose for doing something is important, are we doing it for our lower self or for others?

If the healing treatment doesn't work for someone, do we feel embarrassing? or detach?

if the healing doesn't take place, did the receiver have the passion to find out what is the root cause why still can't healed? Is it because some personality, behavior, habit pattern still repeating and feeding the discordant energies to the problem or sickness?

In order for a successful treatment take place, it take two parties to work together, the receiver need to have the clear & positive passion to heal them self, they willingly to change their mindset, the way they think, the way they act, and willingly to do something to heal themself.

For the healer or giver, to have self honesty to ask our self, what is the intention to heal others, or self. does it involve any negative ego? Do we do our homework or just purely based on healing techniques?